You're still very emotionally attached to her. This is understandable given you've been married a long time. What are you actively doing to emotionally detach and get yourself to a healthier spot in your heart and in your head?
Apparently whatever I am doing to cut emotional ties is obviously not working. At this point most of my ideas to try cross lines I don't want to even approach. So... thoughts and ideas?
I really want to avoid terminally stupid and morally stupid too. Spending the weekend with younger D and S isn't as doable either. Annoyed with her about some FB posts and her blocking older D about it. Had a less than respectful tone addressing me too.. Also Church services are on earlier schedule Saturday and Sunday. Couples group meeting Sunday and I need to bring soup. Not sure which soup to make... an easy one for the crock pot... split pea is easy and bring a bag of croutons to go with it. Or a cabbage soup... choices choices... Not even sure about attending. Not a couple really even if technically yes. ...whiskey tango foxtrot...
Session tonight with the trainer at the gym. Really want to hit the gym a few more times over the weekend too. So if I do the church group meeting and the gym... I'll have to drop normal Sunday afternoon activity... what to do what to do....
Well I have time to sort it out. What I have to test can auto pilot through.
H (me) 56 ; W 54 ; M 32 ; D 32 ; D 30 ; S 21 ; Grandkids: 12, 11, 10, 8, 1
