LBS dealing with WW (part 7) (piecing?)

[Joe2017]

So to give perspective on XWs feelings, earlier this week she told me that she was uneasy with how "flirty" I can be with women. Now, I have not consciously gone and flirted with women in front of her to make her jealous or anything like that. I think I'm just way more confident and attractive now, which could have the effect of women paying me attention. The horror! Whatever. So there is that piece of the puzzle. She is having a trust issue with me, and I ignored her while she knew I was around my exGF.

I actually think that's kind of a reasonable concern, but I think she took it too far.

At the time that she brought it up the flirting, I dismissed it. In hindsight, I could have done much better to validate her feelings.