J I agree with L......at this point your Xw should be rolling out the red carpet for you and earning her way back. Not getting upset with you over something trivial. It makes me feel like she is looking for a reason to make you be the bad guy so she can say she tried but he did this and that. Be very careful if my Xw ever came to me wanting back she would not get a date night with me or be intimate with me or reinsert herself into my life until I was 1000% convinced she did the work. I could see that process taking a year or more. Good luck.
