The fact that you to interact is very confusing. It's almost like you guys are still together just living in separate houses. And the Feb time frame is around the corner.
Loves this is great. I believe it is because of the voluntary support Did is providing. There is no need for her to do the hard work of filing for D to get spousal and child support as long as Did is offering it up each month voluntarily. This is why the suggestion is to never agree to support until order to by a court.
I believe that if he stopped the support, she would either agree to work on reconciliation or file for D. I feel that Did is too afraid of the latter so he continues to offer it up. She has threatened him with "If you stop support then I will lose all respect for you." She knows how to manipulate our poor, dear friend Did.
I also believe that either Did will have to file himself, or stop support. Otherwise he will go on in limbo with her being fat (resources wise) and happy as long as the money keeps flowing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
