You picking up daughter is helping. Everyone is right about their opinions on your response. A simple "I'll try to get there as quickly as possible, prolly around 3". I feel like such an $ss for saying this, but this is why we have all told you to set up schedules and such. Not bc things like this don't happen, but you are a grown man who doesn't even know how to respond to a woman you have been separated from for almost 20 months.
When my first husband and I split, we immediately started the visitations. We did not interact daily. In fact, we converse more now than we did back then about the girls. The fact that you to interact is very confusing. It's almost like you guys are still together just living in separate houses. And the Feb time frame is around the corner.
Please put a schedule together for the daughter. It will be easier if you start this now.
