it wasn't weak. It was way too wordy. Your biggest problem with your interactions with your STBXW are that you say too much.
Remember the principle:
Do not answer unless there is a direct question. In the event of a direct question, answer (in your own time, not right away), but with as few words as possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers.
ovrrnbw nailed it with his suggestion.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
