two steps forward, three steps back (burned)

[burned]

There are moments when I wonder if maybe she really is just single, that OM really is out of the picture. But she's calmly and resolutely selling the house and she accepted my lowball settlement offer with no hesitation. So I tell myself, people here say 9 months is a short amount of time. So she might sell the house anyway but maybe she'll someday think about me and wonder how I'm doing. I know this is stuff people here have said over and over and over. But think I'm starting to FEEL it.

So in the meantime I will work on me. There's a LOT of work to do. The focus is on me now. But also, enough of that WW tough love stuff. From now on when she contacts, I'm immediately responsive and super cheerful. This will be easy and pleasant for her, because I'm not the person trying to make her see all of the reasons why she's making a mistake. She wants the D, I will give it to her, because it's not my job to force her to do something that makes her look bad in her own eyes, thereby making me feel better. That's old Burned crap.

This is a fairly major shift. Switching into more of a WAW strategy rather than WW. Or should I stay the course I'm already on?