Maybe my last post made it sound more dire than I intended. I have done a lot of analysis over the last year. I think there were some right reasons we married each other as well. You said: "I don't believe that 2 people need to be 100% compatible in order to love each other and live happily, but at least they need to share some basic beliefs and values. " This was us.

When she went wayward, those beliefs and values went out the window. But they are back now, at least seem to be.

Yes I think I was starting to think a bit like a walkaway. I think I am backed away from that now. But yeah, I agree with you. Instead of finding some one you love, we should love the one we found. (Another anti-divorce expert says that all the time.)

Thanks Kiro, please keep your insights coming!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018