Back to feeling useless and unwanted. Yeah its all in my head. Got lots to work out.
Very sorry you're having a down time. Keep in mind that only your W's feelings changed, you still have a lot of kids and grandkids to consider and I bet they love you to pieces.
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There are lots of women at the gym. You know what goes through my head? Not any of them are my W.
I used to think that after BD. Now? I think "Not any of them are my W THANK GOD"
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I read here and there are so many of you that seem far stronger than I am feeling.
What you are going through is normal. You just joined here 5 months ago, it takes a good year for most of us to start feeling "normal" again. Be patient with yourself! Just take things a day at a time, or if that's too much an hour at a time. Don't spin about the future right now, just get through each day.
Please start a new thread and link the two threads together. Many thanks!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
