I haven't posted much yet but have spent a lot of time reading and educating myself here. There's multiple pearls of wisdom in each and every thread!
I do request some experienced advice on how to handle the following sitch?
Meeting W Saturday morning for coffee. I'm thinking she wants to discuss moving forward with separation, splitting assets, etc. My plan is I just listen and not really say much in response apart from "let me think about that" & asking a few questions to get more of a read of what her mind set is.
My IC suggested I could also say something along the lines of, "It's been 22 years,I feel the relationship is owed some processing to understand what went wrong, so as we can move forward with new relationships in due course, understanding how we individually contributed to its demise of ours so as not to occur again by going to see a counselor to talk about it"
Thoughts?
H:50 (me) W:44 M:12 T:22 BD: 08/2018 W Moved out 08/2018
