OK here goes first post... pt 5

[Twofeet]

David,

Do you have a calendar journal marking all interactions with W/kids/changeovers? If you are expecting trouble, have you tried just calling the police proactively to explain the situation?
R2C always recommends the book Divorce Poison for people with adverse divorces with kids. You probably should get it and read it a few times over. I think guys like R2C and Zuess had some adverse divorces, you should go read their sitches.

Lastly, I have read, watched, and heard plenty of people who had to spend fortunes to just get to spend 50% of their time with their children. Not one of them said it wasn't worth it. Its only money and you can't take it when you go, and when your kids are older someday they will realize what you were willing to do for them. Keep it up.