Just a corrective: when I say move on or wait, by the latter I don't mean passively waiting, but rather staying committed.

I am moving on. This year alone, I am publishing three peer-reviewed papers, organizing a conference, moving overseas, connecting with nonprofits to provide skills to developing countries.

Spiritually, I make a choice regarding physical commitment, even during separation. Do I impose this belief-based choice on others? Far be it for me, other than by personal example, to dictate how others live.