Thanks everyone for the support and prayers. Greatly appreciated. Things are better, and I am back to working on MR 2.0 and trying to improve things. However, I still have pangs of thinking maybe I should I have just insisted she follow through on her plan to get a job, get her own place, and D. I wonder often what that would look like today. I guess I am being a typical human-being in that I want my cake and eat it too.
Glad you are back on track.
I guess one of the things I think you need to look at is this. People cycle up and down, hot and cold. This obviously includes you too. So in DB we suggest you sit back - take a deep breath and wait for the cycle to complete before you make a big decision. Having your cake and eating it too are fine for the long term but be careful that you make decisions about it in the short term.
LOVE is a CHOICE not a feeling, so be sure it is what you are choosing to do, for the right reasons.
