Dude, trust me, you don't want to keep things up the way they are going now. If you guys end up divorced, you'd wish she'd go ASAP so you can get on with life.
I’m in a surprisingly good mood this morning, so far. Trying to PMA, but also not think of her as much and if I do, not let it get my down. But you’re right. This can’t hold forever. And also relates to my comment at the bottom—wondering if I should be done and ready to move on, too.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
Right now, she sees you as standing in her way and delaying things. You need to get out of her way so she can see how you aren't the source of all her problems.
You are correct on both counts. She sees me as the problem, not a surprise. But I’m also not the (total) source of her problems.
Originally Posted by ovrrnbw
This doesn't mean you give in to her outrageous ideas. R2C put it well. Leave it at that. If she thinks you're avoiding, maybe she's right, maybe not. But don't avoid. You may want to have a lawyer look at that "plan". Then when she asks about it, tell her your lawyer is reviewing it.
I believe I mentioned this on a previous post. I’d like to have an initial consult with an L to look it over. It looks surprisingly well done—I’m sure she had ‘help,’ or a legal template, I’m betting.
