Dude, trust me, you don't want to keep things up the way they are going now. If you guys end up divorced, you'd wish she'd go ASAP so you can get on with life.
Right now, she sees you as standing in her way and delaying things. You need to get out of her way so she can see how you aren't the source of all her problems.
This doesn't mean you give in to her outrageous ideas. R2C put it well. Leave it at that. If she thinks you're avoiding, maybe she's right, maybe not. But don't avoid. You may want to have a lawyer look at that "plan". Then when she asks about it, tell her your lawyer is reviewing it.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
