I'm in a very similar situation Ballast. I feel my WW has ran away also and not dealt with our seperation and end of the relationship. I havent seen or spoke to her since last september. She's still in her A.
Hang in there Joe. I know that you will make it through.
BH: 36 WW:33 M: 2 Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018 0 1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019 LRT: Oct 2018 WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)