What I mean is that you need to be the role model to D4. To be consistent with your changes, to keep growing as a person but also as the father you are. There are still too many " she"s in your posting. Itīs about you now Did. Not saying anything about divorce or setting February as an expiration date. Donīt get yourself into a corner man. Free yourself and start your own healthy journey, as a free man and as a father. No expectations, but hope. W must do a hard work on herself, itīs up to her now. You canīt be waiting for that awakening, it may never happen.