Oh I agree. We are not a young couple. Not an old couple either. But I married with expectations of monogamy and loyalty. Unfortunately my WW betrayed her vows to do just that.

I had no issue being monogamous. None at all, even at our lowest times. And I agree, it's not the sex that bothers me. It's the betrayal of my trust and the complete and utter removal of her love from me coupled with her seething hate generated by her self justified false assumptions of why it was ok to do just that.

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019