I just posted this to another thread, but it might be helpful for you as well:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...ain=47467&Number=2057224#Post2057224


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712