Hi Gekko,


Originally Posted by Gekko
I am Alpha and went overboard with it, crossing the line and being a jerk, feeling that I was in a power struggle for who was top dog in the M. I also was conditioned to receive criticism constantly, so when I came home from work I was just waiting for the first strike to come my way from W, and was ready for a fight. After awhile, I began to hear criticism in many benign statements from W, where "did you wipe the table down" sounded like "why haven't you wiped the table down yet?" I would get defensive in those moments as well.


So, have you found any 180's? Have you had opportunities to interact with W differently?


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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