No you are doing fine! Sorry if I made you feel that way! I'm just suggesting tweaks, it's nothing major.
Thanks. Looking for affirmations now wherever I can get. Kinda depressed about things with W right now. I feel like they’re kinda hopeless.
I know I’m not detached like I should, and I should be better about saying ‘goodnight’ to her (not always been doing that recently), even if there are no ILYs between us right now.
I’ve noticed some nights recently that when I go to bed, I hear her sniffle, and last night, I heard a sniffle and then she rather demonstratively flipped herself over, so that she faced away from my side of the bed.
I know I also shouldn’t notice / care, but I noticed a fru-fru beer can in our guest bathroom trash (we both shower there because YS sleeps in a pack-and-play in our room for the time being). I wasn’t looking for evidence—it’s right there on top of the trash, but still more drinking in the shower, even on a work night.
