you are handling it extremely well. Just one caution, the POS Jody whos face you might want to rearrange, please refrain from doing so. Granted he is pa POS and a dirtbag, but he is only a symptom, and not the disease. I am telling you this because you are bound to hit the angry phase at some point in the not too distant future (we all do/did go through that phase), and it would be a shame if you got in trouble with the law and also with the military.
Stay strong buddy, you are getting solid advice here.
