So be responsive about the kids. That is not pursuit.
Okay. Fair enough.
And you’re also right about the whole half of the time as part of a separation. It is a negotiation point, but I’m treating it as a threat, and I’m mentally preparing myself because she really wants this. And I probably shouldn’t.
A 180 would be giving her direct answers. Also working with her as best as I can. But my intent is not to get back at her—that’s not it.
I thought over the past 10-12 months I attempted to make 180s on things she wanted me to work on. But then she brought this up. Feels like it’s that I ‘always’ do this or I ‘never’ do that. That she doesn’t see (or doesn’t care to see) any sort of positive changes that I’ve made.
