Letting Go. Detaching. Done Engaging.

[ovrrnbw]

I hear you man. My folks weren't the best to model a R after. But it's obviously possible to learn and improve. Your daughter sounds like something else.

I know you've mentioned the Feb timeline. My opinion, and I hope others comment, is that you haven't given your W or yourself enough time and space to truly get away from each other and do some healing, some growing, and some self-assessment to know if you're ready to try to fix things or to divorce. You've tried to do this in spurts, but none have lasted longer than a week.

I hope we get some more opinions on this, but I know this is just advice, you get to choose for yourself.