Dealing with a WW and trying to save myself pt. 4

[SoTorn]

Ok. So I have managed to not physically see WW since last Thursday.

WW gets home and I'm here because I'm really tired. WW immediately in my face complaining about me. Asking what I'm spending my money on, assuming I'm doing something bad that I'm hiding from her.

I tried to get away and she wouldn't relent. I was going to leave but want to spend time with s11.

I had gone dancing a few months ago at a gay club. They have a great DJ. It's not only gay. Who cares? I'm not gay. I ran into BIL and he told her. But the thing is I told her I saw him two months ago. So she starts like smirkly giving me [censored] about it.

I just asked her to leave me alone. Again and again. Told her I will not allow her to mistreat me and will not speak with her when shes treating me like this.

So she says "oh you want me to believe you changed?"

I said "no, I dont. I dont care anymore. I'm done. Our relationship is over. I'm done" and she responds with "you care if I think you changed!".

I said "listen, I want you to listen and understand me, you cheated on me, you continue to mistreat me, we are done and therefore my business and what I do with my time is none of your business or concern, so again, leave me alone."

She responded with ya you say your done but watch tomorrow you wont be done. I have not pursued her in a very long time.

I just walked off.

That being said. I'm done. I cant do IHS anymore. I just can't. Also, I dont want WW back. I really dont. I'm done. Yes I'll always love her, but she will never change and i cant waste anymore of my precious time with this woman and in this house.

I allowed her to calm down and i told her that I will be happy to move out and give her what she wants provided we have an attorney draft up a custody agreement and she agree in that agreement to refinance the house and buy me out.

Her eyes got very red. She "almost " cried. But I just walked off as she said ok. I will see my attorney Wednesday. So I'll have him draft something.

No more of this back and forth. I need to remove myself from her physically.