Letting Go. Detaching. Done Engaging.

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Thanks Ovr, I agree completely. Im making the changes for me. Still lonely at times but I know Ill be fine in the long run. I just dont see her making the changes. Shes focused on starting to work which is great. I cant fault her on that.

Sandi, appreciate your insights. I have been acting like were divorced. That post your replied to yes it was NGS wanting to call back that night... I didnt do it. I do feel a lot better definitely pride and like a stronger man that Im fine with or without her.

This separation has been since June 2017. I am going to stand by my timetable of February... Ive accepted it. And I have goals that have nothing to do with W or our relationship. I will reach my potential and have a great life. Its a shame but it is what it is. The only way I see anything changes if she shows serious resentment and wants to fight for me as hard as I fought for her for a year +

Ive made an attempt to start a mens divorce group locally. In effort to help men, have people to talk to going through it, and potentially start coaching men on happiness. Using a lot of what Ive learned here as well as everything else Ive learned that I didnt know while married.

Cheers and thanks for the support.