Gordie 22 eight months after she dropped the D

[AndrewP]

Hi Gordie. Recently out of curiosity I read your a bit of your thread from last year at this time.

Man - o - man have you come a long way.

Keep in mind please that you are in the place that you are in out of your own choice. You chose this path. And yes, it's a hard and rocky one.

What I read between the lines of your updates is that your wife is still very much about the me me me. She wants more from you and more of you to the point where she is perhaps somewhat jealous of her own children.

You've done the work, gotten the counseling. She just sees that you aren't treating her as much as a princess as she might imagine that you should.

Sorry if that sounds harsh and I would be happy for you to tell me that I'm idiot. My point is that my belief is that she's expecting you to forgive, forget and work hard at winning her affections back. You on the other hand wish for contrition and for her to work at winning you back. And that's not happening. So understandably you are angry.

Personally I think you are doing fabulous despite the very real things you are trying to work through. And I am still fully on #TeamGordie.