I Was a Jerk (Part 1)

[Twofeet]

Just don't lie. The WS will want to blame shift or try to come out smelling like roses despite being the one who likes to wallow in the sty. Kids aren't dumb, they will figure it out, so don't base your R with the kids on a lie. Read my sitch, telling the kids was one of the worst days of my life. I don't buy into the kids are resilient B.S. W and I have been pretty amicable as far as kids go, but they still feel the effects. Hell S3 believe it or not is starting to say things that are heartbreaking and act uncharacteristically. Read RyanHun's sitch his D was having all sorts of problems. Its the long term effects you don't necessarily see now that bother me. Once you BD your kids get them some therapy. Unless there is something like abuse and the safety of the kids at risk, then the kids are the real losers. Just my opinion.