if it were me I would probably just not say anything to her and if she asks I would tell her "I've decided to postpone it for now" rather than saying you decided it's not what you want. If she says how long then just say you don't know and you've got some thinking to do, because that's the truth.
That's my game plan for now. I handed her the grenade but I didn't pull the pin.
Originally Posted by AnotherStander
Originally Posted by burned
She'll say, "Well then how do you suggest that we proceed?"
Well, this is the tricky part. You've done all the work so if SHE wants to proceed then there's not really anything to it except file the paperwork.
At least now I know that if she doesn't proceed it's not because she doesn't know how.
H: 35 W: 33 M: 11 T: 13
4/10/18: I discovered A and confronted ("BD1") 6/23/18: I moved out 8/31/18: MC ends ("BD2")
