two steps forward, three steps back (burned)

[ovrrnbw]

It's for you and her, to see that you're strong and act from strength and your own morals and not reacting to her.

You're asking these questions b/c your scared. I get that, it is scary. That's why I said

Grab ahold of your member, stand up tall and put your shoulders back, and be clear and brief

If you don't want divorce, don't push for divorce. A strong man, and woman for that matter, does what he wants to, makes a decision and doesn't look back. Look up BDE in the urban dictionary.

If she asks for suggestions, Mr. Plan B would certainly offer up a few. Mr. BDE would say "not my place" and then hang up the phone.

If you think this is pursuit, go read DR. MWD lists a bunch of forms of pursuit and not filing D is not one of them.

You know, when I was dating before my W, I always told women I was going to CALL when I was getting her number. And I told her if she didn't answer that's OK. Most men today, ok boys, play little text games and screw around on these apps. But I was looking for a real woman who wasn't screwing around. If I have to text and say this and do that just the right way, it just wasn't meant to be.