I Was a Jerk (Part 1)

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I’m considering setting up a consult with a child psychologist to discuss how to tell the kids, let W know about this and say she can join if she wants.

Overkill. Be strong, tell the kids frankly and gently.

Obviously you can do and think what you want, but does a strong man need a psychologist to tell him how to talk to his children?

I also can see your W taking this as you blaming her or shaming her.