Given that I am not communicating with W in accordance with the temp restraining order that she requested and was granted ex parte, should I inform her that her credit card will no longer work and that she will no longer be receiving my pay check into the joint account starting with my pay on the 15th? Should I just let her figure it out? That is the course i intend to take. Seems like a jerk move though and don't want to appear as trying to be selfish or hoarding money to the court. I am trying to figure out what is a jerk move and what is no longer being Mr Nice Guy. She would still have access to the joint checking account and there is money in there so it isn't like she wont be able to eat or get gas.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
