Not initiating conversation is fine. You will get used to it. But only if you are consistent. Remember, you are NOT her friend. When that gets said its not like "I hate you I am not your friend". It means, you are not her friend, because you didn't marry her to only be friends, you married her to be her husband. Since she doesnt want that you are not going to just fall back into the friend zone and live there with no movement.

I am almost completely NC with my WW.

It helps me not talking to her. It protects my emotions not talking to her. Thats not for her, its not to punish her. Limiting contact is helping you move forward with yourself and your life. If there is any sort of attachment, you are going to hurt and never most past the hurt.

Last edited by SoTorn; 01/07/19 04:51 PM.
M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019