I just dont know if we would be happy together unless there was such radical change.
You see, you know this. It's the accepting part that is hard. So you let her go and if she really wants you, she'll come back with the changes necessary. Most of us know our problems, deep down, even if we are good at hiding them or pretending they aren't there.
On the flip side, what radical changes does Did need to undertake? That's where you should be, and it looks like you are, focused. Don't make your next R the same as the last one, whether it's with your W or someone else.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
