"Sorry W, I've thought it over and I have come to the realization that divorce is not what I want so I will not file."
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So what do I do? Just let it sit? She will say, "You said you'd get the paperwork done so that you could transfer the money." How do I respond to that without looking like a wishy-washy plan B? I dug myself into a bad hole here.
So you'd rather be divorced than considered wishy washy?!? Read this one out loud to yourself and you will understand the enormity of your gaff. Again you are avoiding a situation that you potentially find unpleasant (can you say avoidance).
When you are talking from the position of your beliefs, you will project strength. You BELIEVE you should not get divorced, so TRANSMIT your BELIEF that the divorce is not something you want. If she wants it, let her do the legwork for it. You will not fight her, you just will not help her. There is a difference, a GIGANTIC one.
