You are not causing problems. She is temp checking the holy sh*t out of you man. That's stuff my WW was saying besides being supportive.
Your M is already damaged to the point she considered it over. You cant break something that is non existent. Stop worrying about how she feels. As long as you're not being vindictive or actually mistreating her there is nothing else to do.
What have you done lately for yourself?
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019