I constantly remind myself that I need to remain a kind and dignified person to the best of my ability. Anything less is not personally acceptable.
I agree with this and try to live my life like this in all ways, and especially when I see H. I try to treat H like God would want me to, with kindness and compassion. It helps me keep peace with myself, live mainly a content life while I wait, and hopefully helps H, although I so rarely see him I wonder if it makes any difference. BUT, it makes a difference to me. And that is what GAL is all about. Ourselves.
We are here to help you along with your journey. Hugs.