Getting Mixed Signals - New Thread

[Ready2Change]

glad to see you back. It is OK to take breaks from here. Just know that we do get concerned and worry for people that just disappear without letting us know.

I feel like I’m torn. I’m torn between trying to remain true to my vows and stand for my marriage. I try to think maybe this is the worse in for better or for worse. Maybe we can survive this. I’m torn between wanting to be patient and hopeful.

The other side of me wants to say forget this mess. This is not what I wanted for my marriage. Part of me wants to walk away. We are living like roommates and I’m better than this. However something is holding me back and it pisses me off. Like why can’t I just walk away from this fool? Why am I allowing myself to live in limbo and wait on him to wake the heck up?

This process is definitely the WORSE in your vows. Only you can hold up your side of the vows. It is also the time for you to clarify what you want in a marriage.

Somewhere in the future, hopefully you can be direct with H. Right now based on what you have told us, I believe the indirect behavior is your bes option. But no one knows. At some point, "This is not working for me" speech might need to be made to H.


Only you can figure this out. I believe knowledge is power. Now is a time for you to get more knowledge. Find your happy without him.