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Marina,

Hope the kids are feeling better today-

AS far as OW making comments to W

Read the thread I just posted on OW contacting me-and how she must treat H
She told me she is ready to ship him back?

once the honeymoon phase passes- the affair is in trouble and gets worse and worse

The affair partners are extremely sick people-just as bad, maybe worse than the MLCer.
I don't think many here can honestly say the X -affair partner was a good choice?

I think the MLCer picks control freaks even though they complain they are leaving to be free-

I remember running into my XH very good friend here in town after XH contacted me to have his olds froiends contact him..all his old friends are sober guys as he used to be sober as well-MY XH was asking for help- to get out of his M and get sober at that time


His friend told me- XH new wife texted friend and told him to never contact XH again
she didn't want him to get help-
she wants him sick so she can control him and because she is sick

You may see you W get worse especially now she seems like she is losing control -but I think this is all right on course for the MLcer because they have to hity a big bottom-
you cant save her and OW may help her hit bottom-


I agree with DNJ
Offer your w that you will be happy to take all responsibility for the kids-
anytime she feels the need to be free of them

the MLCER is a terrible parent-