13 years and 2 kids pt. 4.

[SoTorn]

Like LH19 says. Dont think about it, dont make decisions thinking about how WW sees them. Stop thinking that your journey is ONLY for trying to save your M. Get out and get busy. I mean like jam pack your days with activities.

You will ride this rollercoaster for a while but the more you detach and GAL the better you will feel. I was initially posting all about my WW when I got here. Everyone was like, ST, good God man, you aren't doing anything beneficial, stop it stop it stop it and oh yeah, cut that friggin crap out!!!

You will feel down for a bit. But you have no idea how good you are going to start feeling when you get to the point where you are truly only focusing on yourself. You are going to be GAL and one day you are going to wake up. You are going to take a step back and take count on your feelings and you WILL say to yourself "wow, I feel really good about myself today!" And the next day you will feel even better and the next day etc.

Implement what you are being advised to do. It's not a gimmick, it's not a joke, it's not a magic bullet to make WW see the light and come running back to you.

Qll of the information and feedback is for your sole benefit. You will be AMOAFWL and you will know this because you will feel it. You will feel the future of your life pulling you forward. You will no longer feel the past dragging you down.

When you get to the point where you are AMOAFWL, you will be a strong, single, confident man smashing through life with positivity and you will look at your relationship and be like "wow, that was not beneficial to me".

These little thoughts of what could have been will be brief and will not create any emotions.

But the ONLY way to get to that point is by DBing like a madman. The faster you detach, the more you keep yourself busy, the faster you will feel better. Remember, you are living for you. Be that better man and show your kids how a mature adult picks up and takes their life into their own hands.

You can do it.