Detaching timeframes are hugely variable. I can tell you that when I first started posting here I was desperately trying to figure out how to save my M. However since the whole forum beat me upside the head with 2x4s for a few months and I actually got my ass in gear and detached, GAL and 180 the holy hell out of it, I feel way different.

I can honestly say that even though I have had thoughts of sadness and resentment lately that they are fleeting thoughts that pass very quickly. The more i get out and meet people and see that there is a whole world of people, both men and women that are interested in knowing me and actually react positively to me and the changes I have made, the more I become to appreciate that I am my own person and on my own path.

I am seriously considering moving out now. Like for real I think I may go ahead and have a custody agreement drafted so I can get out of the house. I can reach my full potential while living IHS with WW. I am young and I have zero desire spending the last years of my 30s holding a candle to WW and not moving forward.

We should have a BS yearly meetup. No joke, like let's all pick a spot to meet up in the USA and do it. Or even go overseas.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019