I agree with you on the WW vs WAW. My WW essentially kickstarted the A (today has been exactly one year since BD) and just got deeper into it since.
I need to keep reminding myself to face my fears and continue to detach. I don't know why I'm struggling. Anxiety of losing too much maybe? We were very deep in love until two years ago when I got the warning from WW. She begged me for help because of her love for me. I ignored it. We're back under one roof (for now). I'm working hard on reducing contact with WW as much as possible and I am getting a lot more temp checks from her. Just this morning, she asked me to sub for her class because she wasn't feeling well. I declined.
