I have always been fascinated with how people who come here characterize their situations. IMO the vast majority of people who come here spouses show signs of MLC. I know I once took a test online to find out if you are having a MLC and answering how my ex would and she scored like 90% she was having a MLC. Hanging out with younger friends, plastic surgery etc.
I have seen people come on here and suggest that their 27 year old spouse is going through MLC???? I have come to think that if they can label it makes them feel better. I think for some it is even a way to excuse ther spouses behavior.
I've come to realize that MLC, WW, WAW its all the same. A grown adult making a conscious decision to walk away from a marriage knowing full well it is logically not what they are supposed to do unless obviously abuse, addiction etc. are involved.
Just wanted your take. I assume you believe your W is going through a MLC. Does that make you feel better, or worse about your situation?