Originally Posted by Ready2Change


The easy path is the hard path and the hard path is the easy path.


This is probably supposed to be a Zen-like thing, but I’ll bite:

The short-term solution (giving up and giving in and dropping W like a bad habit) will cause me much pain / suffering in the long-run, and DB’ing (though hard now) will ultimately bring more joy in the future and hopefully make things easier.

Even though my current mood is to drop her like a bad habit. You want out? Fine, GFY. But your parenting proposal s*cks, your idea of rotating residences is a joke, and you need to get your own place if you’re really serious. Oh and after we S / D and I get my act together I’ll start dating when I’m ready and I’ll totally make you regret leaving me behind. Ta-F’ing-Da.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19