My attraction scale towards her is like 1 out of 100 right now
How attractive is someone who wants to fire me from my vocation and throw away what we had? Why should I find that attractive?
This is a valid question, but it's not the only question.
The other question is, "Why is she acting in this way? Are some of her stances legitimate, or is she going through something else right now that I need to be supporting"
You've mentioned in previous postings (I think) that W may have PPD. This is a real medical condition. I can't say whether this is the case or not, but you have the best insight. If you suspect this is a player in the mix, please consider the second question. If you don't believe it's a player in the mix, disregard my post.
When people say "Marriage is hard" I always assumed it meant external factors that W & I would face together. You know, a death of someone we love, cancer, moving, jobs....all these life things. I thought it will be hard with her by my side. No. What they mean when they say "Marriage is hard" is that sometimes you're not on the same side. That's what makes it hard.
