Please don't give up yet. It's still too early. She is making a decision based on emotions that can change. Sounds like there is damage on both ends of the MR. Just keep DB, praying, and moving forward. AMOAFWL.
Personally I have a hard time giving up, and being Catholic with the chance of annulment being slim to none (haven't even decided if I want to go that route yet), the other options are very, very hard roads. I'm not telling you what to do or trying to throw in some Catholic guilt. I'm just saying it's pretty early to give up. She doesn't have total control in dictating the pace. Move at a pace that is comfortable to you.
Last edited by Twofeet; 01/06/1912:11 AM.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19