Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 3)

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Lawyer up for you. She doesn’t have to know. In fact, don’t tell her unless she asks. But it’s SO much easier to respond to “attacks” when you know your options, rights, obligations, etc. You then act from a place of strength rather than reacting from a place of fear.

She’s going to act like D can be easy and quick. Word on the street is that lawyers make it difficult and slow, hence the desire to avoid them. Think of it as a sort of blitzkrieg on her end, “shock and awe,” etc. Meanwhile you’re patching the mortar on the city walls and checking with your agriculture department to make sure you’ve got enough grains stored up for the population to survive the winter.

Conflicted is fine. Feelings change, remember? Ride those waves. But stick to logic as much as you can.