I have this feeling he's not going to do what is mandated to be done. He's going to let it run its course and have it thrown out.

I'm sorry, but I don't think this man wants a divorce at the moment. Yes, he complains, etc., but he's definitely not showing much in the way of initiative to get anything done.

Try to enjoy your life as much as possible because it looks like limbo will still be around for a while.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.