She has restored your faith in her? She is lying to her boyfriend to get a free cruise, couldn't tell you to your face or earlier about her boyfriend and now your faith is restored because she is going with you under a fake guise?
I am sorry Don. You deserve better than this. And if you think this is redeeming, you need to set your standards a little higher. you deserve more respect than this.
But if this makes you happy and allows you to enjoy yourself, so be it. But I would never look her way again after the cruise.
WHAT GINGER SAID!!!!!!!
OMG....seriously?!?!?! Restored your faith in her? Don, come on now, you seem like a confident guy and even said on a post on J9’s thread yesterday that you tell it like it is. To coin yet another phrase my father uses all the time, that doesn’t gee haw for me. I know I just made a long rambling post the other day about forgiveness so this sounds strange coming from me. I’m not advocating that you shouldn’t forgive her at some point but that she called and said she’s still going under totally false pretenses and that restores your faith in her, that leaves me dumbfounded. Like G said, you deserve SO much more.
Like juju, I feel like I live in a completely different world than most woman and what this one did to you is the reason that women all get lumped together and men claim there aren’t any good ones. Ugh!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
