I know there is going to be a conversation of why I ignored her on her birthday and other things.
W:"Bla bla bla ignore bla bla ba" H:"I believe I was busy. Anyway, I got something I need to take care of. Goodbye"
^^^This^^^ Boy those NGS tendencies die hard, don't they?
Phoenix, let's say you worked for me and I fired you last year. Then let's say I called you in a huff and said "Phoenix, what the hell man, yesterday was boss's day and you didn't get me anything? No card, nothing??? And here I was thinking about giving you your job back, but now, I don't know." How would you respond to that? This is no different, she fired you from your job as H. Why do you think you should be doing husbandly things for her?